Had so much to do with work, been emceeing a lot lately. Anyways today I won't be talking about my life instead I want to share about my experience in relationships and relationshits.
It's true that I have been in a lot of relationships before but seriously, if you think I'm a player. You're absolutely wrong about it. I don't know about other people but I'm the type of person that wants a long lasting relationships but I think I'm just not lucky enough to have one yet? Or maybe I never will? Haha! Alright put that aside, let's get into the actual topic for today.
1. The first time he start texting you.
If a guy really likes you he would start of by texting you like a normal friend, hoping to get to know you more and find out about what you like. He'll always be there for you to share how happy your day was or complain about all your anger. Most of all, he never forgets to ask how was your day and shows you how much he actually cares about you.
In another way round, if a guy only talks to you so he could get you to just play you. He would start off with "Hey cutie" and then straight away tells you that you're pretty and he likes you and then start telling you BULLSHITS like I'll never leave you, making tons of promises when you're not even together yet. Of course sweet talking is their best weapon to make innocent girls to fall into their trap.
Honey, let me tell you this. All those promises and sweet talk he's telling you, I bet you're not the only one he's talking to right now. ;)
2. He tells you the truth all the time and will give you advice when something you did is wrong
A guy that really loves you will not be afraid to be completely honest with you even when he knows it might offend your feelings. Although it's true sometimes the truth hurts but its definitely better than being lied to right girls? If you ask him how do you look in that dress, he will tell you the truth if it doesn't suits you rather than lying to you and make you look like a clown wearing that dress in public. I know lots of girls gets pissed off when their guys tell them they don't look nice or look fat in what they're wearing. But honey, if you don't think his opinion is right then don't ask him. Why would you want to create arguments for no reason?
3. He gives you the feelings of security and will listen to you when you tell him you feel insecure. Even though sometimes It's silly that we girls get all kinds of insecurities over some stupid reasons like your boyfriend just smiled to one of his female friends. But if this guy really loves you, he wouldn't get mad at you and think that you're just being a drama queen. He'll ask you what's wrong and do whatever he has to do to prove it to you that you're the only one. Of course he has to mean whatever he tells you. He's never afraid to let you use his computer or phones because he has nothing to hide. Of course when there's trust you wouldn't need to check all his messages, but on this part I wouldn't be so sure because I'm the type of girl that respects my guy and never check his phone. But during one of my past relationship, this guy actually cheated on me a lot and I only found out after we broke up. So, I don't know if I'm stupid to not check my guy's messages but I just feel that it has to be a mutual respect of each other's privacy.
Well well... when you're dating a jerk who's a player, trust me! You will have tons of insecurities getting at you. The biggest hint to show that he's flirting around is that he is so scared to let you hold his phone or have his social media account's passwords. Even if you have it, you'll notice that the conversations are always the same as it's never been active when you actually see him texting online. Duhh... obviously he's always busy deleting all the conversations he had with other girls.
4. Loyalty.
Oh yes, if a guy really likes you he can wait and he will wait for you! Girl, have you ever had one best guy buddy who's always by your side listening to you bragging about other assholes who are treating you like nothing but shit? And you totally friend-zoned him because you think he's too nice? Wake up bitch, he has been there all along waiting for you and secretly protecting you. He doesn't mind waiting and watching you date other guys over and over again until the day you realized that he is actually the one that deserves your heart. But at this point you came to realized after hurting him so much do you even deserve him right? So open your eyes wider and see clearly and stop hurting all this nice guys.
If a guy only want to hook up with you, he'll keep pushing you into getting intimate as soon as possible. He can't even wait for you. Maybe he'll try to get you for a week or two, gives you all the sweet talks you need to hear but if you still want to take things slow. Soon enough you'll see that he stops talking to you anymore. Slowly he'll go MIA and faster than you could even expect he's already with another girl. Even worse when he's so afraid to let people know that you're his girlfriend.
5. Flaws
Your flaws is not an issue to him. Honestly, I could be very disgusting at times. I like to do weird stuff like chewing my food and then show it to my guy. If he just say ewww and laughs at you. He definitely likes you even how bad you look. Even if you fart in front of him, he wouldn't mind it at all. LOL! And he'll never leave you when you need most. Even if you're so pale when you're ill or well, the biggest issue that girls fears most which is gaining weight. He'll still stay with you no matter what happens and adores you just the way you are. But if you feel like you need some changes to improve your looks he'll still support whatever your decision is except PLASTIC SURGERY! I gotta say that I actually have really small Boobs and the guy that really loves me will definitely not make it an issue. And if he tells me that I need to get it enhanced I'll just give him an international middle finger and leave!
But guys who likes you because you're hot or pretty will eventually just say BYE BYE and leave you devastated and wouldn't give two fucks even if you beg for him to come back. Then you'll start asking him about those promises he made to you. What actually happened to our "FOREVER"? Guess what? It's all BULLSHITS.
Everyone should really watch this inspiring music video. His girlfriend had a car accident and became paralyzed but he still stand by her and took care of her. :) I really respect him because honestly It is not easy.
6. Priority will not be an issue to him. He'll always find time for you and fulfill every single promises he made to you. Well, worst comes to worse he'll call you at least once a day or send you messages to let you know if he's busy so that you don't need to wait for him like an idiot. Everything will remain the same as the first day you guys started dating or it should be even better.
I've come across relationships like this guy would like to see me and talk to me everyday for the first month and then when he starts to feel bored tons of excuses will appear. Like he's so called busy with work, school, etc... but then you'll see him online liking status or last seen few seconds. Haha yeah, very busy right? And then soon enough he'll make it as an excuse to break up with you because he got no time for you and he feel guilty about it. But few days later you see him in a relationship with someone else. LOL!
Anyways, this is all I could share for now because my brain just stop functioning out of sudden. HAHA! Well, hope this helps you make the right choices before falling into a relationship. Honey, don't get your heart broken too many times because its not worth it. Find someone who really loves you and deserves to have you. :) Likewise, don't ever go around breaking any nice guy's heart because you wouldn't like the same thing to land on you.
Thank you for reading! Have a great weekend everyone! XOXO
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